Wondering Where You Should Live? Keep These Things in Mind

We all have our dream places to live. It’s pretty spectacular when you make that dream a reality. But before you sell it all to move to the country or trade in the beach for the mountains, here are some location considerations to keep in mind — before making a decision.

Living in the Mountains

What people expect: 

Gorgeous vistas, fresh mountain air, the smell of pines, nature at its finest.

What people don’t realize:

Tough weather. Some mountain towns get snow every month of the year. In Winter Park, CO, July and August are typically the only months without fresh snow. This is great if you’re a skier, not so much if you want a garden and an “average” summer.

More wildlife. Living in a remote mountain town is awesome for exposure to wildlife, but being so close to wild animals definitely has its downsides. 

In states like Montana and Northern Wyoming, it’s highly discouraged to go hiking by yourself — it’s extremely dangerous as you could encounter a bear or moose. Some homeowners can’t even take their garbage out whenever they want, solely because of bears! In a Colorado college town, a man was attacked by a mountain lion mere miles from the city.

Less access. Living remote is amazing for many people, but it’s still good to keep in mind that the lack of access will affect you in almost every way. There are fewer restaurants, often not as much variety as what you’ll find in cities, fewer stores, and depending on how far you live from town, inclement weather will all but eliminate the possibility of grabbing a bite or something from the store.

If you’re used to being able to get whatever you want, whenever you want, you’ll undoubtedly feel some frustration moving to a remote spot in the mountains. 

Altitude sickness. Difficulty breathing, headaches, nausea and vomiting are just some of the symptoms of altitude sickness. People can go their whole lives not knowing they’ll suffer from it — until they get to the mountains. If you’re hellbent on moving to the mountains, take a mini trip first to see how your body does.

Living in the City

What people expect:

Bustling nightlife, bars and restaurants galore, centers of culture and diversity, lots of things to do.

What people don’t realize:

Way more expensive. If you’ve never lived in a city, you probably won’t know how much the cost of living affects you until experiencing it firsthand. 

Living in the city is much different than vacationing in the city. Unless you’re ready to spend $12,000+ a year on your own place, be ready to live with roommates. You’re not going to eat at restaurants all the time (you’d probably be broke if you did), you’ll have to go to work — it’s a lot less glamorous than when you visit for a long weekend.

Pollution. Noise, light, and air pollution are very real. People with asthma, allergies, or other sensitivities will likely long for peace and quiet (not to mention the ability to just breathe normally).

Traffic and parking. Paying for parking is just another cost of living expense. Parking tickets are basically a rite of passage. You could feel like you live 5 miles from work but in cities like LA, proximity doesn’t mean a shorter commute.

Living in the Country

What people expect:

Peace and quiet, living out their farmhouse dreams, a simpler life.

What people don’t realize:

“Simpler” doesn’t mean easier. If you want to live out life like a country song, know this: it’s a lot more work than 3-4 minutes of catchy lyrics indicate. Owning a lot of land or a farm is a ton of work (even a hobby farm is practically a full-time job). Living away from the city or suburbs means that you have to take care of a lot more things on your own, such as plowing or even getting your own water supply.

Prepare to drive more. Everything becomes a commute. Seeing friends, getting groceries, going to work — it takes more time and requires more planning.

Wildlife, again. If your countryside abode is near tall grasses or the woods, you’re at higher risk for deer and wood ticks. You’ll have a higher chance of hitting a deer. Pets could be at risk in an area where they’re no longer towards the top of the food chain — coyotes live in every state except Hawaii.

Living Near the Water

What people expect:

Living the boat life, beautiful views, fishing abound.

What people don’t realize:

Water is unpredictable. Look up a picture of the Grand Canyon, think about how water formed that, and that should tell you all you need to know. Flooding near lakes and rivers and hurricanes near the shore greatly impact homes. There are things you can do (such as protecting lake houses from flooding with sandbags) but living close to or right on the water carries some inherent risk.

Wildlife, part three. Near lakes and rivers, this looks like gnats and mosquitos. In Florida this can look like alligators. On a California beach, good luck eating a snack when gulls are around.

Could be more touristy. Everyone loves taking a vacation near the water, which could bring lots more people near your house than you might expect. In highly touristy areas, this could drastically drive up home prices as well.

Living in the Desert

What people expect:

Breathtaking sunrises and sunsets, warmer weather, lots of sun.

What people don’t realize:

Scorpions. We’re not even calling this “Wildlife Part ___” because scorpions get a category of their own. Even if you don’t live directly in the desert and live in a city like Tucson or Scottsdale in Arizona, you will likely encounter scorpions at some point. Get used to shaking out your shoes before putting them on, and do some research — some unfortunate homeowners have built or lived in a migratory scorpion path.

Summers are rough. A lot of places that get snowy, cold winters are tough to endure, but you can at least dress warmly to somewhere. In desert climates, there’s really nothing you can do other than hang in the shade by the pool when it’s 110 degrees or more. 

Water is precious. There are rules on when you can water your lawn (or if you can have a lawn). A lot of homeowners opt for xeriscaping, which might not be your jam if you’re hoping for luscious green grass.

None of this is to discourage you from moving to your dream location. In fact, we think you should look through the RealtyHive listings to see if there’s a house for sale in an area you love! The point is that no place is perfect — the last thing you’d want is to risk it all for a location where the reality doesn’t live up to expectation.

How to Decide Where to Live

Maybe it was a breakup. Maybe you no longer want to live in the city you grew up in. Maybe you’re simply feeling restless. Maybe you just don’t want to shovel your driveway anymore!

No matter the reason, this blog is here to help figure out where to move next. Sure, you can throw a dart at a map of the US, but we figure going through the best places to live in the US might provide just a skosh more stability.

Moving Based on Climate

It’s true what they say — the grass is always greener. Desert folks want to escape the heat and see some beautiful greenery. Landlocked people want an ocean breeze. Here are some great places to live in the US based on climate:


Arizona is popping off right now, and for a good reason. The warm winters are what dreams are made of, and if you’re burning up in the desert, cool off just 2-3 hours north in Sedona and Flagstaff to cool off.

Phoenix and Tucson have tons of hiking trails to behold. Scottsdale is known for its trendy restaurants and great nightlife. Plan your move in the middle of a snowy January and we’re pretty sure you’ll never look back.


If you think living near the beach can only exist as a pipe dream, you’re blissfully mistaken. To be sure, it’s a little pricier. But if you can’t manage to own a home in Hawaii or Beverly Hills just yet, consider somewhere that’s a hop, skip, and a jump from the ocean.

Brawley, CA is just barely two hours away from San Diego. Lake Arrowhead is an hour and 40 minutes from Santa Monica — plus, this beautiful lake will surely suffice when you can’t make it to the ocean.


As we’ve mentioned in previous blogs, people flock to Colorado in droves. While there’s nothing wrong with moving to this progressive and scenic state, there’s a city that’s less expensive and with equally stunning views — if not even better mountainous vistas.

Meet Livingston, Montana. An hour outside Yellowstone National Park, this city is surrounded by gorgeous mountains and rivers with great restaurants. It’s perfect for small-town living but attracts some big names — John Mayer has a place just 8 minutes away in Paradise Valley, MT.

Moving Based on City

New York, LA, Boston, Seattle — these cities are popular destinations for a reason. But there are plenty of smaller, lesser-known cities that deserve time in the spotlight:

  • Lincoln, NE is #9 on Livability’s 2019 list of most livable cities in the US.
  • Salt Lake City, UT has great restaurants and an incredible public transit system.
  • Milwaukee, WI is a bustling city — if it’s too bustling for you, settle in a nearby suburb like Waukesha or Pewaukee that has its own vibe.
  • Grand Rapids, MI is right on the water and has amazing historic neighborhoods.

Moving Based on Accessibility

Living in a rural place and dreaming of convenience? While the city might be too big for your next step (and that’s perfectly fine), imagine the convenience of nearby international airports, multiple grocery stores, and shopping centers.

Goodyear, AZ is 30 to 45 minutes from the Phoenix airport (Sky Harbor International) but has tons of shopping areas in close proximity. West Allis, WI is not even 15 minutes from downtown Milwaukee. Practically any suburb outside a bigger city will be a huge step up in convenience and accessibility.

Moving Based on Feeling

Countless people read about a city in a book or saw a place on TV and can’t get it out of their heads. While some might think it’s crazy to move based on instinct, we’re inclined to disagree. When you’re drawn to a location, you should honor your feelings and look into the possibility at the very least.

But here’s what we would recommend:

  • Check out the place first. Take a trip and see what you think.
  • Take your time, and don’t act too rashly. It’s super romantic to think about packing it all up and leaving. This quickly wears away if you get to a foreign place without a job or home lined up.
  • Consider others. Having a spouse or kids means you absolutely have to honor their needs. Moving at this point in time might not do that, but it doesn’t mean you’ll never get there.
  • Examine your “why.” Are you moving because you’re ready for a change, or because you’re running away? We’re not saying you’re wrong if your answer is the latter, but it’s something to think about. Know that your problems don’t magically disappear just because you’re in a new location.

When you’re ready to call a new place home, make RealtyHive your first step. Our listings are among the best places to live in the US, from places that are up-and-coming to homes that are practically off the grid. Find your new home with RH!